Transcript of Why She’s not IN THE MOOD anymore…
Jimmy on Relationships
0:00I just don't understand why she's never0:01in the mood anymore oh my wife used to0:02be the same way really what do you think0:04it is well it could be a number of0:06different things but um let's rule out0:07some obvious ones hold not the clipboard0:09have you tried nonsexual affection what0:12you know like holding her kissing her0:14touching her gently instead of just0:16randomly groping her you know touching0:18her without any pressure for the bedroom0:20so she knows you value her more than0:22just her body my wife loves that stuff0:24does yours I don't know okay have you0:26tried intentionally setting aside time0:28to reconnect together you know schedule0:30you sit her surprise her with a date be0:31playful talk about life and love like0:33you did when you were dating nah it's0:34been really busy at work lately right0:37have you asked her if she feels0:38overwhelmed with the mental load and the0:40emotional labor of this family or the0:42relationship were those real words I I0:44don't speak Spanish how about0:45vulnerability no intimacy stop saying0:47words I don't know emotional connection0:49okay this isn't fair you're making me0:50out to be the bad guy in all this0:52remember she's depriving me listen I get0:54it I don't mean to make you out to be0:55the bad guy I'm just trying to stretch0:57your mind on what might be going on
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