Transcript of Dr. Ramani reveals a common narcissistic tactic and why it is so painful #shorts
Navigating Narcissism
0:00the silent treatment is it's a common0:02Gambit in narcissistic relationships0:04especially once they realize it works0:07right it's very passive aggressive and0:10what I'm about to say is going to sound0:11very cynical even I'm surprised by this0:13is cynical but they get a lot of bang0:15for their Buck on that right for no0:17effort and once they learn it works0:19they're going to keep doing it right0:21because they're like oh like Works0:22meaning like I'm effective you're0:24getting a rise out of the other person0:25does that make sense yes and you start0:28to control them yeah and now the silent0:30treatment isn't punitive for everyone0:32but for most anyone who has even a0:34secure attachment it's uncomfortable but0:36if you have an anxious attachment it is0:39like playing a person alive yeah because0:41it's the ultimate it's worse than0:44abandonment yeah because it is true0:46abandonment they're not communicating0:47with you they've not used to exist yeah0:49right that's the ultimate fear
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