Transcript of Spontaneous Vs Responsive Desire
Jimmy on Relationships
0:00hey babe how do you feel about heading0:01to the bedroom for a good time wow0:03someone's in the mood just give me one0:05second okay babe so what Jimmy's0:07experiencing here is called spontaneous0:09desire he probably saw me walk in and0:10thought dang she's fine I mean I could0:12use a shave but the point is it's easy0:14for him to get aroused and feel a desire0:16for that type of intimacy if you know0:18what I mean how you doing now here's0:19where it gets interesting I have what's0:20called responsive desire which is0:22different than him that means that I0:24experience arousal and desire for that0:26type of intimacy in response to0:28affection and touching not before like0:30he does so all that means is I need some0:33kissing and some closeness and affection0:34and some touching first before I even0:37have arousal or desire and it's0:39important to note that neither is better0:40than the other it's okay that he's more0:41spontaneous and it's okay that I'm more0:43responsive oh he's doing a sexy crab0:45walk the most important thing that he0:47does is make me feel safe right0:49responsive desire needs safety and Trust0:52you're not going to experience arousal0:53or desire if you feel pressured or0:55shamed for being different right and
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