Transcript of How Avoidant Attachment Can Begin
The Holistic Psychologist
0:00this is a home where we don't fight or0:01argue we just shut down yep I know0:04there's never any yelling just silence0:06around here yeah when people are upset0:08we just give each other the silent0:09treatment or pretend the issue doesn't0:11even exist0:12I know and I feel really abandoned in0:15the process like if I do or say0:17something wrong I'll just be abandoned0:20okay here's what I'm learning avoid0:23conflict at all costs just pretend like0:26it doesn't exist0:27in 20 years I'll be completely avoided0:29and we'll just go along with anything my0:31partner says so that I don't cause0:32trouble my own wants and needs won't0:34matter what will matter is not creating0:37any situations where I'll feel rejected0:39or like a burden anything to avoid the0:41way I feel in this home0:42[Music]
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