Transcript of Be Careful Neglecting a Giver…
Jimmy on Relationships
0:00listen I'm just warning you you have to0:01be careful dating or marrying a people0:03pleaser you need to be cautious getting0:04involved with someone who puts your0:06needs above their own someone who0:08actually seems to enjoy loving and0:10giving and sacrificing for others even0:12at their own expense see givers have a0:14low threshold for accepting love meaning0:16a little goes a long way for them you0:17could essentially give them breadcrumbs0:19and it feels like the whole loaf to them0:20and they have a high threshold for0:22neglect meaning they'll make excuses for0:24your disrespect they'll blame themselves0:25instead of holding you accountable they0:27will tolerate a lot of mistreatment for0:30quite a while but here's the dangerous0:31part once you invalidate their feelings0:33to the point where they don't even feel0:35safe talking to you anymore once that0:37threshold of neglect is reached it's0:40over a switch gets flipped and trust is0:42gone they felt abandoned for so long and0:45they have nothing left to give it's not0:47that they want to stop giving and0:48serving overall they just want to stop0:50giving to you because they realize they0:53deserve more than the bare minimum
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